Lili Elbe, whose real name is Einar Wegener, is a Danish painter and one of the early transgender women. She was also the first pioneer to undergo gender confirmation surgery. Her story is not just about gender transition, but also about art, self-identity, and the internal struggle to find your true self. The close connection between Elby's life and her paintings made her art part of a journey of self-discovery.
Lily Elby was born in Viele, Denmark in 1882. She showed outstanding artistic talent since she was a child. Her parents, businessmen Mogens Wilhelm Wegener and Ane Marie Thomsen, supported her artistic aspirations. While studying at the Royal Danish Academy of Arts, Alby met his future wife, the painter Gerda Gottlieb.
"Art is the only reality in my life. It is the beginning of self-discovery and allows me to face my inner struggle."
The marriage between Gerda and Lily was an important cornerstone of her artistic career. The image of Lily often appears in Gerda's paintings, and Alby became a source of inspiration in her works. The two traveled together and explored places such as France and Italy. Lily's painting style gradually matured and she became famous in the art world. Her works such as "Costal View from France" and "View from the Garden of Versailles" all demonstrate her unique interpretation of natural beauty.
As time went on, Lily's heart became more and more eager to express her true gender identity. She began to wear women's clothing, which was not only a challenge to her social role, but also an exploration of her own identity. Lily gradually accepts her identity as a woman and appears in Paris social circles under the name Lily.
“On canvas, I found a space where I can express myself, which is more important than any social role.”
In 1930, Lily went to Germany to undergo gender confirmation surgery, which was very controversial and experimental at the time. The surgery was challenging, but her hope grew stronger. During this time, Lily and Gerda's marriage gradually came to an end, as the two gradually separated in their love for each other and their life choices.
After four operations, Lily Alby's body could not withstand the complications and she died in 1931. Still, her story doesn't end there. Her life has been adapted in many works, including the 2015 film "The Danish Girl" and the opera "Lily Elby" which will premiere in 2023. These creations not only inherit her experience, but also raise society's attention to gender identity and transgender issues.
"Every stroke and every painting is my way of communicating with the world."
Lily Elby uses her art and courage to express her journey of self-identity on canvas and in life. Her story reminds us of the integral role art plays in discovering our true selves. Facing the future, can we bravely pursue our true selves and respect the exploration process of others?