"Don't You Want Me" was released on November 27, 1981 by British synth-pop band Human League as the fourth single from their third album, Dare. The song is not only the band's most famous and commercially successful work, it also became the best-selling single in the UK in 1981, reaching number one on Christmas Day of that year, and has sold over 1.56 million copies since its release, making it the most popular single of 1981. It reached number 23 on the UK Singles Chart. The song also topped the US Billboard Hot 100 in 1982, where it stayed for a remarkable three weeks. These amazing achievements make it one of the classics of British music.
The lyrics of the song were inspired by a photo story that lead singer Philip Oakey saw in a girls' magazine. Originally, the song was conceived as a male solo, but Oakey was inspired by the 1976 film A Star Is Born and decided to rewrite it as a duet. Susan Ann Sulley, one of two young female singers at the time, was chosen to participate. Sulley revealed that he was able to participate in the recording of this song purely out of "luck".
"The original version of the song had a sharper sound, but it was later remixed to be softer."
After the initial version was recorded, producer Martin Rushent was not satisfied with it, so he teamed up with Jo Callis to remix it, eventually presenting a new sound that Oakey called "pop music." Although Oakey was disappointed with the version, considering it a minor work, the band decided to release the single anyway, which caused some conflict within the band.
In 1981, with the launch of MTV, music videos gradually became an important promotional tool. Virgin Records then produced a promotional video for the song. The theme of the video revolves around the filming of a murder mystery film and features the band members appearing as characters. Director Steve Barron was inspired by the 1973 French film Le pièce de résistance and wanted to make a "movie within a movie".
"This video is an adaptation of The French Lieutenant's Woman, telling the story of the conflict between a successful actress and a director."
The single was released in 1981 and not only quickly rose in the UK Singles Chart, it also remained at number one for five consecutive weeks during the Christmas period. The song's commercial success made it the best-selling single of 1981 in the United Kingdom, and remained a top hit throughout the 1970s and 1980s. Soon thereafter, the song also gained rapid success in the United States with its strong pop style and remained at the top of the Billboard Hot 100 for three weeks. Further evidence of its popularity includes the Recording Industry Association of America's gold certification for its sales, a symbol of its influence.
Not only does this song have an addictive melody, but the theme of the lyrics has also sparked some discussion. According to Oakey, the theme of the song is not simply about love, but rather the complex emotions surrounding sexual power politics. "This is a challenging song, not a simple love song." He pointed out that this misunderstanding has led to inaccurate perceptions of the song.
"In the eyes of many people, this song is a classic of that era."
Although the music industry is facing a period of rapid change, "Don't You Want Me" still stands firm and continues to influence subsequent musicians. It is not just a pop song, but also demonstrates the charm of synthesizer pop music and influences the evolution of countless subsequent music styles. Over the years, the song has been covered countless times and reinterpreted in different styles, whether it is Mandy Smith, The Farm, or Swedish dance group Alcazar, the song's timeless appeal has been proven. This makes us wonder, as popular culture continues to evolve, how else can we commemorate these classics?